To achieve prolonged orgasm a woman needs emotional connection from her partner. She needs this connection long before sexual intimacy commences. Her need for sexual foreplay is to get stimulated on the emotional level that builds intimate connection.
The reason for this is that most women, generally, are motivated through their heart and the openness she feels in a sexual experience is due to her heart and mind connection. This is part of the sexual fantasy or dream connection and how women feel this deeper connection through the body.
So a woman needs to be stimulated in all of her body to be aroused not just the genital area, hence the foreplay. The energetic connection with her partner, or lack thereof, is often what makes the intimate encounter a turn on or a turn off… depending on how successfully they connect. The two people need to have this energetic link, and “vibrate” at a similar energy level, as all energy is vibration. Without this ‘vibration’ there is no chemistry.
Emotion is energy in motion and moves the same for both men and women - it flows up the energy centres in our bodies, known as chakras. Stroking the body opens the chakras and causes them to link to the other chakras causing the whole body to open up the energy fields giving a full body multiple orgasmic effect.
Since guys tend to operate from a rational logical side they seem to be more disconnected from their feelings. The easiest and quickest way for a guy to release a build up in energetic tension is to expel it physically. Mentally, they have connected the need to release stress through their genitals. See Ejaculation Control
Such a common perception among men is the reason that they often seek this avenue of release rather than discussing the subject with their partners or looking for alternatives that offer a full body experience. See The Orgasmic Effect
Women, on the other hand, have a more lateral approach and tend to simultaneously feel and think which contributes to a state of heightened emotional response. So women often require from their partners an expression and fulfillment of their feelings and sexual side as well as acknowledgement of their own personal arousers.
When not addressed by their loved one, disharmony occurs. But when energy control is addressed, the avenues of mutual fulfillment are both open and far reaching. So now that we have covered what women need to feel aroused and why, let’s look at how the guy can arouse a woman.
1. At the foundation of prolonging female orgasm is using The Orgasmic Effect as the art of seduction. You want your lover to feel like she is the sexiest woman on this planet so the more you draw it out the more she will!
2. Foreplay is obviously a highly important part, but before the foreplay comes mood setting. Women love candles, massage oil, music, flowers, strawberries, liquid chocolate and an intimate setting. Think about your location and props.
3. Stroking a women’s entire body in the form of massage and gentle teasing is a great start. It will make her feel relaxed, adored and sensitized. Stroke upwards to raise her energy and don’t forget to touch ALL parts of her body. Start with a feather light touch then increase pressure then alternate again.
4. Women want to hear how you feel – tell her with love and authenticity.
5. Women love to be teased as much as men – keep her guessing.
6. Initiate a playful dialogue so you can communicate about how effective the seduction is going and so you can heighten the experience even further. This can be in the form of spoken or body language. Listen and be aware of her responses to your touch.
7. Slow everything down – make it timeless.
8. Make love with her as though it is the last time you will ever be together.
9. When you can sense your woman approaching orgasm, hold back on what you are doing. This is a sign that the seduction is working but also that you can take it further. Be careful not to stop too close to her climax, as you may tip her over the edge e… so take it to the next level.
10. Keep stimulating your lover in different ways to arouse and raise her energy. Allow her to engage with you but not for long – this is about her. You want her know that.
11. When your newly awakened Goddess has reached orgasm, let her rest briefly then start stroking her and begin the seduction again… and again… and AGAIN! She will tell you when to stop.
12. Enjoy the bliss that you have created and know that what you give… you get back !